On the eve of Gay Marriage in California (and my own wedding 2.0), I’m bought together drag superstar / filmmaker Joshua Grannell (Peaches Christ), solo performer Christen Clifford (17 Guys I Fucked, What I Know About My Parents Sex Lives) and caterer and ladies-woman Betty Hall to enquire into an age-old question in a new way: why have committed relationships and how do you you make them meaningful and sexy?